Why is it important that there is group day treatment for pregnant women with a personality disorder?
Carlinde: "Psychiatric problems are often passed on within families. Children of parents with mental health problems are more likely to develop mental health problems later on. This risk increases further if both parents have complaints. Especially in women with personality problems, because personality problems often manifest themselves in relationships with others, including in the relationship with the child – even if it has not yet been born. We don't know exactly how that risk is transmitted to children. It is a combination of genetic factors, socioeconomic conditions, parenting effects. But what may also contribute is that babies are exposed to stress even before birth, due to psychological complaints in the mother during pregnancy."
Jasmijn: "If you have a lot of complaints as a client, it is often difficult to think about the pregnancy and to think about the baby. This is therefore an important focus of the day treatment. There is room to exchange ideas about complaints or problems that clients encounter in daily life, but there is also explicit attention for being pregnant and how they experience it. We invite clients to think about expectant motherhood and their baby."
Carlinde: "We know that early intervention, already during pregnancy, is the greatest health benefit for children. That makes day treatment for pregnant women so important, because then we can tackle the important themes before the child arrives."
Jasmijn: "Each treatment day focuses on a different theme. For example, the pink cloud. The women in this group regularly say about this: 'Everyone says I should be happy and oh, how great is that pink cloud, but my cloud is black, I don't feel happy at all yet. That makes me very sad.' Another important part of the treatment is that we talk about what you have experienced, what you have received from the past and what you do and do not want to pass on to your child."
Can you give an example?
Jasmijn: "For example, we see that clients had a parent who was boundless, thought a lot about himself and had little room for the emotions or experiences of the children. Clients have missed an important part of this. They indicate in the group that they want to do this differently themselves, that they do want to see their child and its emotions. , but struggle with this theme and can be anxious that they can't do it. For example, other clients struggle with the conviction that they are not doing well enough, or are inclined to adapt too much to the wishes of the other. These are, for example, many shared topics in the groups: the feeling that you are not allowed to be there, that you are not doing it right. And there is a lot of uncertainty about how they are going to do as a mother."
The treatment is always done in a group. What is the advantage of that?
Jasmijn: "The women receive recognition, recognition and support from the group, which is very important. They share things with each other that they often don't talk about with the outside world. In doing so, they support each other. If the cloud is also allowed to be black, there is more room to feel the positive aspects. We also see that in the group they sometimes get a mirror from each other, that others say: 'Clever how you do it, do you also reserve time for yourself?' The group is very diverse when you look at religion, sexual diversity, culture, but also when you look at differences in characters, education level and disciplines. We see women with a wide variety of complaints: compulsion, anxiety, sadness, eating disorders, addiction problems. It is nice how there is a lot of connection through pregnancy. And it's very refreshing, such a diverse group. Then three say: 'I recognize that, I'm so anxious too.' And says a fourth: 'So I don't have that at all.' Or someone says: 'The way you stand up for yourself in your relationship, I want it too. I want to become stronger.' In this way, they learn from each other. A group encourages reflection and is also a playing field to practice different behavior. For example, by speaking out, or by taking up space."
The group offers a lot of security
Jasmijn: "That's right. This is how the entire program is set up from start to finish. We call every new participant in advance and explain the practical things such as where to go and where you can park. Every week the program has the same structure. That also gives security, you know what to expect. And we have a permanent, close-knit team. There is a lot of knowledge in-house and we have a lot of fun and sociability together. The clients see that, it also offers safety."
What effect does the treatment have?
Carlinde: "We see that the women in our treatment suffer less from the psychological complaints they come in with. They start to feel more connected to their unborn child, and they start to think better – and milder – about their own thinking, feeling, acting and that of others."
Jasmijn: "Clients start thinking about what kind of mother they want to be, and become curious about their child. It gives them more peace and less stress during pregnancy. That's nice, because it's already such a precarious time."
Carlinde: "We know all this because we have been following the women scientifically since the start of the treatment in 2020 and have also interviewed a number of women about their experiences after the treatment. We see that sharing your experiences in a group of other pregnant women who are not all 'on the pink cloud' is very important."
Jasmijn: "We are enthusiastic, and the women themselves are also positive. It really helps to think about yourself, your baby, your pregnancy, what kind of mother you want to be once a week. They feel supported, recognized and seen. And they keep seeing each other, friendships come out of it."
Postpartum
After the birth, the treatment team follows the women for another three months. Where necessary, we think along about a possible follow-up treatment. For women who continue to have problems after childbirth, there is the option of following a postpartum group. This is a collaboration between the NPI and the Gnome House. The postpartum group is given by a practitioner from the pregnancy day treatment and an IMH specialist from the Gnome House.